This week Channel 4 begins its Real Sex Season which, it claims, will
‘reclaim sex from pornography’. A
laudable aim but, given Channel 4’s history, I am sceptical that this is what
will be delivered. This is the channel
which bought us Drugs Live, Dogging Tales
and The Joy of Teen Sex, all of which
were heavy on titillation and light on educational value. This season, which promises us the luridly
titled Sex Box and Date My Porn Star, looks like it may be
more of the same.
However, at the risk of becoming a hostage
to fortune, one of the programmes does look very interesting:
Porn on the Teenage Brain is a documentary written and presented by Martin Daubney, who
resigned his position as editor of lad’s magazine Loaded after becoming a father and realising that he wanted nothing
more to do with the world of soft porn that he'd been peddling for over a
decade.
In his film Mr Daubney sets out to understand
the reality of the pornography today’s young people are consuming because it’s
free and an unregulated click away. He
also investigates what effect it has on their malleable brains and the ways in
which they relate to each other.
Mr Daubney has written a moving article
about his experience of making the film in the Daily
Mail which we commend to you. He
says:
“I was profoundly saddened by what I had
witnessed. While teenage boys will always be fascinated by, and curious about,
sex, what's now considered 'normal' by under-18s is an entirely distorted view
of intercourse and the way relationships should be conducted. It seemed as if the children's entire
expectation of sex had been defined by what they see in online porn. “
Research undertaken for the film found that
the vast majority of UK
teens had seen online sexual imagery or pornographic films. Brain scans carried out for the programme
also found that the compulsive users of porn showed the same signs of addiction
in their brain as those hooked on alcohol or drugs.
The reward centre of the brain is fully
developed by the time we're teenagers, but the part of the brain that regulates
our urges - the pre-frontal cortex - isn't fully developed until our mid-20s.
The brains of teenagers are not wired to say ‘stop’; they are wired to want
more. The implications of this study are profoundly troubling.
“If porn does have the insidious power to
be addictive, then letting our children consume it freely via the internet is
like leaving heroin lying around the house, or handing out vodka at the school
gates” says Mr Daubney.
“Could
it even have a wider impact on their lives, blighting their ability to function
in the world, get good qualifications and jobs?”
The programme airs at 10pm on Channel 4 on
Monday 30th. It does not
promise to be an ‘easy’ watching experience but, given that legal porn now
accounts for a third of global internet traffic, it is important that we are
informed about what is involved and its possible consequences.
In the words of Martin Daubney: “Like many
parents, I fear that my boy's childhood could be taken away by pornography. So
we have to fight back.”
Thank you very much for that.
ReplyDeleteOn the positive front I suggest a good book by Louise Kirk, "Sexuality Explained, a guide for parents and children", Gracewing (www.gracewing.co.uk) 2013.
Best wishes,
Andrew Byrne